आखिर क्यों (Why)?
Aajkal ke Students k liye Kisi ladki ko Impress krna, Girlfriend banana ye sab ek fashion sa ho gya Hai. Aajkal ke Is Modern generation me ek jaroorat jaisi chij ban GAI h. Ham Apne Friends log ko dekhte Hain to Hame BHI aisa Lagta Hai ki kash Hame BHI ek Girlfriend Hoti. Hame BHI koi Hoti baabu-Sona kahne wali.
Koi Nhi Mai aaj aapko isi se related baat Karne jaa rha hun, ki agar aap bhi Kisi ladki ko pasand karte hai aur aap bhi use apni ek best friend/girlfriend Banana chahte Hai to ye kaise Kar sakte Hain.
1. लड़कियां आप से क्या चाहती है?
Sabse pahle Kisi ladki ko Impress Karne ke liye aapko ye Janna jaroori Hai ki we log Kisi ladke se akhir kya ummid rakhti Hai? Wo Kisi ladki me kya dekhati Hai?
Yhi to main chij Hai jise aapko Shi tarike se samjhana hai, Agar aap ye Jaan Gaye to phir aapke liye rasta bilkul aasan ho Jayega.
Sabse pahli baat to ye ki aap Kisi BHI ladki ko jabardasti se Apne pyaar me daal Nahi sakte. Uske liye aapko khud uski najaron me aacha banna/dikhna padega.
2. आप खुद उसके Like बनें:
Wo time Gaya jab ladkiyan ladkon ke Hair-Style, Uske jeans aur T-Shit ke pahanne Ka style, use bahar se ache dikhne ka ktyle se impress io jaati thi. Aajkal ke is badalti hui duniya me saari chijen Bahoot teji se badal Rahi hi. Sbhi ki sochane, dekhane Ka tarika badal rha Hai. Aur agar aap abhi wahi purani chijon ke baare me sochate Hain to aap jaha Hain wahin rah jayenge.
Aajkal ki ladkiyan ye dekhti Hai ki aap abhi kya Kar rahe ho, Aapke pass kya talent Hai, Aapka kya future Hai. Isliye aap pahle khud ko ye saari chijon ke liye khud ko improve karein, Aapne upar time ko spend karein aur uski najaron me aacha bane. Uske like bane.
3. अपने आप को अच्छा बनने में समय(Time)को लगाएं:
Apne Time ko khud ke improvement me lagaye Jo aap faltu ke Uske baare me baatein Karne aur Uske baare me sochane me bitate Hai. Aap hamesa positivity ke Saath Aapne ko ek aacha insan banane me time lagaye, Yaad rakhe ye aap khud ke liye Kar rahe hain, wo aapme abhi interest le ya na le lekin aapko hamesa Apne aap pe kaam karte rahna Hai. Kyunki, ladkiya BHI ye dekhti Hai ki aap khud Apne liye kya karte ho/kya Kar paoge.
🎯 Aap Kisi ek skill ko dhundhiye aur usme aacha Karne ki koshish kijiye. Aapka aisa koi talent/hobby jisme aap jyaada interest rakhte ho use aap acha Karne me time ko lagaye. Ladkiyan BHI aise ladkon me interest rakhti hai Jo Apne study ke sath-sath Kuch extra activities me participate karte hai Kuch alag karte Hain.
4. कुछ भी बोलने से पहले सोचें:
Kai Baar aisa hota Hai ki ham faltu ke Kuch bhi Bolte rahte Hai. Kai Baar Hai ISI me Galti se Kuch bekar ki baate kah dete Hain.
Jyaada bolne ki adat ko khud ko control Karne ki Puri koshish karein. Kuch bhi bolne se pahle Kuch second sochne ki aadat banaye.
🎯 Kisi ladki ke samne aur bhi Kisi ladkiyan ki baate nhi karein. Aapko sayad use jealous banana aacha lage lekin aisa na Karein, isse sach me ladkiyan jealous feel Karti Hai.
🎯 Aap Kisi BHI ladki ke samne Kisi aur ki burai na karein. Kisi ko BHI Apne se nicha dikhana aur Uske baare me majak udaana ye saari chijen ladkiyon ko bilkul pasand Nahi Hoti. Wo ye sochati Hai ki aap Uske samne jaisa Kar rahe hain sayad Kisi dusre ke samne Uske baare me bhi aisa karte honge, isliye is Tarah ki koi BHI Galti na Karein.
5. उसकी एक अच्छी तारीफ़ करें:
Ladkiyon ko ek chijen Bahoot hi jaada pasand hai, aur wo Hai ki Uske baare me ek Achi tarif Karna Jo real ho.
Apne Time ko khud ke improvement me lagaye Jo aap faltu ke Uske baare me baatein Karne aur Uske baare me sochane me bitate Hai. Aap hamesa positivity ke Saath Aapne ko ek aacha insan banane me time lagaye, Yaad rakhe ye aap khud ke liye Kar rahe hain, wo aapme abhi interest le ya na le lekin aapko hamesa Apne aap pe kaam karte rahna Hai. Kyunki, ladkiya BHI ye dekhti Hai ki aap khud Apne liye kya karte ho/kya Kar paoge.
🎯 Aap Kisi ek skill ko dhundhiye aur usme aacha Karne ki koshish kijiye. Aapka aisa koi talent/hobby jisme aap jyaada interest rakhte ho use aap acha Karne me time ko lagaye. Ladkiyan BHI aise ladkon me interest rakhti hai Jo Apne study ke sath-sath Kuch extra activities me participate karte hai Kuch alag karte Hain.
4. कुछ भी बोलने से पहले सोचें:
Kai Baar aisa hota Hai ki ham faltu ke Kuch bhi Bolte rahte Hai. Kai Baar Hai ISI me Galti se Kuch bekar ki baate kah dete Hain.
Jyaada bolne ki adat ko khud ko control Karne ki Puri koshish karein. Kuch bhi bolne se pahle Kuch second sochne ki aadat banaye.
🎯 Kisi ladki ke samne aur bhi Kisi ladkiyan ki baate nhi karein. Aapko sayad use jealous banana aacha lage lekin aisa na Karein, isse sach me ladkiyan jealous feel Karti Hai.
🎯 Aap Kisi BHI ladki ke samne Kisi aur ki burai na karein. Kisi ko BHI Apne se nicha dikhana aur Uske baare me majak udaana ye saari chijen ladkiyon ko bilkul pasand Nahi Hoti. Wo ye sochati Hai ki aap Uske samne jaisa Kar rahe hain sayad Kisi dusre ke samne Uske baare me bhi aisa karte honge, isliye is Tarah ki koi BHI Galti na Karein.
5. उसकी एक अच्छी तारीफ़ करें:
Ladkiyon ko ek chijen Bahoot hi jaada pasand hai, aur wo Hai ki Uske baare me ek Achi tarif Karna Jo real ho.
Ye, Mai apni experience se kah Sakta Hun. Sach me girls log ko Uske baare me tarif Karna Bahoot pasand Hain. Lekin ab baat aati hai ki tarif kya karein aur kaise?
🎯 Agar aap Uske sath time bitate honge Uske sath Kuch baate karte honge, to Uske baare me Bahoot sari baatein hogi Jo aapko pata hogi...jaise ki uski hansi, uski muskan(smile), uski height, bolne Ka tarika, dressing style ye sab.
Aapko uski tarif Karne ke liye bilkul akele hone ki jaroorat Nahi Hai, phir BHI aap ye koshish karein ki aap uski tarif us jagah na Karein jaha uski aur Aapka koi Friend sun na sake. Ye aap use text message ya instant message k jariye Kar sakte Hain.
🎯 Yah BHI dhyaan dein ki aap uski tarif kis Tarah Kar rahe hain. "Yah ek Sundar dress Hai, ya mujhe aapki dress Bahoot pasand hai", iske bajay "Aap ye kahein ki aap is dress me sach me Bahoot achi dikh Rahi ho. Tarif Dress ki Nahi tarif ladki ki karo. Sath hi body language ko BHI thik Rakho.
6. उसे ख़ास होने का Feeling दिलाएं:
Kuch aisa koi chota tarika apnaye jisse aap use khas hone Ka feeling dila sake. Use andekha na Karein, Kabhi BHI usse jyaada bhav na khyein. Kbhi BHI yadi wo aapko message bheje to aap use reply karein. Yadi Kabhi wo Aapse baat Karna chahati Hai to aap Uske liye time banane Ka prayash karein...bhale hi ye Thora muskil ho aap busy hon. Yadi usko Kuch kaam me aapki jaroorat ho to aap use help karein...Us kaam me apna hath btayein.
💥 Yahi sab Kuch baatein Hai Jo aapko Yaad rakhni Hai. Aasha karta Hun aapko ye article pasand aayi hogi. Iske baare me aap comment Karke jaroor batayein 🔥
🎯 Agar aap Uske sath time bitate honge Uske sath Kuch baate karte honge, to Uske baare me Bahoot sari baatein hogi Jo aapko pata hogi...jaise ki uski hansi, uski muskan(smile), uski height, bolne Ka tarika, dressing style ye sab.
Aapko uski tarif Karne ke liye bilkul akele hone ki jaroorat Nahi Hai, phir BHI aap ye koshish karein ki aap uski tarif us jagah na Karein jaha uski aur Aapka koi Friend sun na sake. Ye aap use text message ya instant message k jariye Kar sakte Hain.
🎯 Yah BHI dhyaan dein ki aap uski tarif kis Tarah Kar rahe hain. "Yah ek Sundar dress Hai, ya mujhe aapki dress Bahoot pasand hai", iske bajay "Aap ye kahein ki aap is dress me sach me Bahoot achi dikh Rahi ho. Tarif Dress ki Nahi tarif ladki ki karo. Sath hi body language ko BHI thik Rakho.
6. उसे ख़ास होने का Feeling दिलाएं:
Kuch aisa koi chota tarika apnaye jisse aap use khas hone Ka feeling dila sake. Use andekha na Karein, Kabhi BHI usse jyaada bhav na khyein. Kbhi BHI yadi wo aapko message bheje to aap use reply karein. Yadi Kabhi wo Aapse baat Karna chahati Hai to aap Uske liye time banane Ka prayash karein...bhale hi ye Thora muskil ho aap busy hon. Yadi usko Kuch kaam me aapki jaroorat ho to aap use help karein...Us kaam me apna hath btayein.
💥 Yahi sab Kuch baatein Hai Jo aapko Yaad rakhni Hai. Aasha karta Hun aapko ye article pasand aayi hogi. Iske baare me aap comment Karke jaroor batayein 🔥
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